added another page ( see sidebar - astrology) , based on astrology, i am really fascinated by the stuff that comes up based on the position of the stars and the moon and the sun and the various planets.... how can these objects have an influence on my psyche and my personality?

or is there some giant secret book somewhere which has everyone's life in it, and the key to reading the book is the sky....ie the planets and the stars, and some of us have actually figured out how to read that book? or is it something written in the sky? which implies that we are born with a predetermined fate and destiny...which doesn't appeal to me, or rather i absolutely junk such an idea, so the reverse might be true...my actions here and now determine who and what i become and that is reflected in the stars?

its like a person standing next to a pond, and i can only see his reflection, not him, so i say he has a blue coat, red hat, moustache etc, but that does not mean that the pond decides what clothes he is wearing, its just that the pond shows me, but its the person who decides what he or she is going to wear...

hmmm, the same site actually told me something about soulmates too.....a very delicious memory..